You've tried everything — and your child is still struggling with big emotions, broken sleep, and behaviour that has you stumped and everyone exhausted. Biochemical reasons can make this worse- which means you can change them.
The meltdowns that come from nowhere. The bedtime battles that go on for hours. The defiance, the aggression, the tears (yours and theirs).
You've tried reward charts. You've cut out sugar. You've followed the advice online and in the books. You may even be navigating medication. And yet the difficult behaviour is still there, still straining your family, still making you question whether you're doing enough.
In Ruth Fellowes' experience as both a parent and clinician, you're not failing your child. You're just not being told enough about the critical piece of the puzzle- the impact of nutrition on your child's capacity.
Behaviour is more than a neurodevelopmental or parenting problem.
It's also the outward sign of a brain and body working under strain because they don't have the right nutritional resources to function well.
When a child struggles with focus, emotional regulation, sleep or mood, the answer often lies deeper than behaviour management.
Neurotransmitter imbalances affecting mood and impulse control
Nutrient deficiencies that limit the brain's ability to stay calm and focused
Gut health issues disrupting the gut-brain connection
Food intolerances driving inflammation and behaviour spikes
Genetic differences that mean your child needs more of certain nutrients than average
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Families who work with Ruth Fellowes typically see:
Calmer moods and fewer meltdowns
Better sleep- falling asleep faster and staying asleep
Improved focus and engagement at school
Less aggression and defiance at home
A child who feels better in their own skin
As a boy mum of 4 I understand first-hand the strain that difficult moods and behaviour can place on a family. I know how isolating it feels when everyone else's strategies don't work for your child — and how frustrating it is to not know why.
That personal experience, combined with 18 years of clinical work in food intolerances, gut-brain health, nutrient needs and childhood behaviour, means I bring something most practitioners can't: both the empathy and the science.
Certified Practicing Nutritionist | BHSc | MPH|Adv Dip Nutritional Medicine | Adv Dip WHM | SOS Feeding Therapist.
Your food and mood expert.
Based in Goulburn NSW. Supporting families across Australia.

Most approaches to childhood ADHD focus on adding things — a supplement, a diet change, a new routine.
That's only one third of the picture.
In close to 2 decades of work, Ruth Fellowes has refined a three-part framework that looks at the whole biochemical picture — not just what your child needs more of, but what might be actively blocking progress, and what needs to come back into balance.
The nutrients, dietary building blocks, and targeted supplementation your child's brain and body are genuinely short of — identified through functional testing, dietary assessment, and where relevant, genetic analysis.
Food intolerances — including salicylates, amines, and glutamates, not just gluten and dairy — and dietary additives that interfere with neurological function, gut health, sleep, and behaviour. I am trained in the RPAH Elimination Diet, the gold-standard clinical approach to identifying food chemical sensitivity in children.
Stress physiology, sleep onset and quality, gut-brain connection, and mood and attention regulation — supported through nutrition, herbal medicine, and where appropriate, targeted amino acid therapy..
Yes - often significantly. When we address the underlying nutritional and biochemical drivers (rather than managing surface behaviours), families typically report calmer moods, better sleep, improved focus and fewer behavioural spikes. The difference is that we're strengthening the systems that regulate behaviour, not just responding to it.
Not necessarily. A diet rich in protein, vegetables, fruit, healthy fats and wholegrains supports brain function well. But even children who eat well can still have challenging behaviour due to food intolerances, poor nutrient absorption from stress, or genetic differences that increase their nutritional needs. That's why a personalised, tested approach gives far better results than general dietary advice.
Key nutrients like zinc, magnesium, iron and omega-3s play a direct role in how well a child's brain can focus and regulate attention. Addressing gut health, understanding your child's unique DNA ability to process nutrients, reducing inflammatory foods, and identifying individual intolerances can also make a significant difference. The most effective approach however always starts with understanding your child's specific nutritional gaps rather than following a stock protocol.
Absolutely. Many children struggle with focus, emotional regulation, sleep or behaviour without ever receiving a formal diagnosis — and the underlying nutritional drivers are often the same. If your child is clearly not thriving, that's reason enough to look deeper. A diagnosis tells you what, but biochemistry helps explain why.

Calming the moods and improving attention through nutrition.
Understand the 3 step framework to stabilise moods, encourage regulation and improve sleep and appetite in your ADHD, or restless or unhappy child
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Outlines the exact framework Ruth Fellowes uses with all kids to get results.

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